If you're a Microsoft Access user and you've ever thought, "Maybe it's time to move this database to SQL Server," then congratulations: you're officially at the point where Access starts giving you that side-eye. The good news is SQL Server Express is free, solid, and perfect for learning. The slightly annoying news is that installing SQL Server can feel like assembling IKEA furniture without the pictures. So in this lesson, I'm going to walk you through installing SQL Server Express and SQL Server Management Studio (SSMS) the right way, with zero mystery and minimal suffering.

Before we can link Microsoft Access to SQL Server, we need an actual SQL Server engine running somewhere. In our case, we're keeping it simple: SQL Server running on your local computer (or a computer in your office), and Access connecting to it. That means step one is installing SQL Server Express, and step two is installing SSMS, which is the tool we'll use to actually manage databases, create tables, and generally poke at things until they behave.
Let's start with the important concept that makes everything else make sense: SQL Server Express is the database engine. It's the part that stores the data and responds when Access asks for it. It's basically the "server" part of SQL Server.
SSMS (SQL Server Management Studio) is not SQL Server itself. It's the control panel. It's the tool you use to create databases, design tables, run queries, manage security, and troubleshoot problems when something goes sideways. Think of SQL Server as the engine under the hood, and SSMS as the dashboard.
So the plan is simple: install the engine first (SQL Server Express), then install the dashboard (SSMS).
First, go download SQL Server Express from Microsoft. The exact page and link names may change over time, but the key phrase you're looking for is SQL Server Express and the current version. At the time of writing this, it's SQL Server 2025. If you're reading this in the future and Microsoft has moved on to something newer, just grab the latest Express version. The steps are basically the same.
Once the installer is downloaded, run it. You'll see a couple of choices, and this is where most people blindly click whatever sounds easiest and then wonder why things are confusing later. Choose Custom.
Not because we're doing anything fancy. We're not.
We choose Custom because it lets you actually see what's being installed and where, and it forces you to learn the terminology you'll need later when you're connecting Access to SQL Server and trying to make sense of error messages. The "Basic" install works, sure, but it hides a lot. And since this is a course, we want understanding, not button-mashing.
The installer will ask where to download the setup files. This is not where your databases will live. It's just where the installer temporarily stores the files while it does its thing. The default location is fine. Unless you're dealing with a tiny system drive and you know what you're doing, leave it alone and continue.
Once the download finishes, you'll land in something called the SQL Server Installation Center. It sounds like a place you need a badge to enter, but it's basically just a launcher. Choose the option for a New SQL Server standalone installation.
Then you'll see the license agreement screen, where Microsoft politely asks for your firstborn child and your immortal soul. (I'm kidding. Mostly.) Click accept and move on.
Next you'll hit the update setting. SQL Server can optionally receive updates via Microsoft Update. This is personal preference. I typically turn automatic updates off because I like controlling when things update, since updates can occasionally break things and I prefer discovering that on a weekend and not during a workday. If you're comfortable with auto-updates, it's fine. Either choice is valid. Just pick intentionally and continue.
After that, SQL Server will run an installation rules check. You're looking for one thing: no red X errors. Warnings are usually informational and not fatal. A common warning involves Windows Firewall, and that's normal. We're installing SQL Server locally, not exposing it to the internet. We can adjust firewall rules later if we ever need other computers on the network to connect.
And let me pause for a very important public service announcement: do not expose SQL Server directly to the internet. Yes, it can be done. No, you shouldn't do it unless you're a security professional or you're paying one. I speak from experience. One of the fastest ways to ruin your week is letting random strangers on the internet take a crack at your database server. Use proper hosting or services if you need remote access. For this course, we're keeping things in-house for a reason.
Next, you'll see a screen about Azure extension. Azure is Microsoft's cloud platform, and it's great, but it is not what we're doing here. We're building a local SQL Server setup for Access users. Turn Azure stuff off and continue. You can always explore cloud options later, after you've learned the fundamentals.
Now we get to the features selection screen. For Access users, there is exactly one thing you must install: Database Engine Services.
That's it. That is SQL Server.
The other options are for more advanced scenarios (replication, full text search, PolyBase, etc.). They're not necessary for this course. If something extra is already selected by default, it won't usually hurt anything, but the key takeaway is: Database Engine Services must be selected. Then continue.
Now comes a major vocabulary word: Instance.
This is where Access users tend to get confused because SQL Server terminology doesn't match Access terminology. In Access, you have one database file (ACCDB) and that's basically the whole universe. SQL Server doesn't work like that.
An instance is a running copy of SQL Server installed on a machine. One SQL Server instance can contain multiple databases inside it.
So think of it like this: the instance is the container, and your databases live inside that container.
SQL Server Express installs by default as a named instance called SQLEXPRESS. Keep it that way. Seriously. Leave it alone. Using the default makes everything easier, especially when you're learning. Later, you can install other instances if you truly need them, but most people never do.
Next you'll see server configuration settings (services, startup types, accounts, etc.). For almost all local learning and small office setups, the default settings are fine. This is where enterprise administrators spend their lives tuning things. We are not doing that in this course. Leave the defaults and continue.
Then you'll hit the authentication mode screen. Choose Windows Authentication.
This is the best option for in-house setups because it uses your Windows login. No separate SQL password. No storing credentials. And it integrates very naturally with Access.
And no, you do not need a Windows domain. Windows authentication works in peer-to-peer networks too, as long as the users who need access have Windows logins that exist on the SQL Server machine.
For example, imagine a tiny office with three people: Joe, Bob, and Sue. Everyone has their own computer, and Bob's machine becomes the SQL Server machine (because Bob is the "database guy"). If Joe and Sue need to use Access linked tables against SQL Server on Bob's computer, they just need accounts on Bob's machine. Many offices keep it simple by using the same username/password across all PCs for each user. Totally normal.
Once you click next, SQL Server installs the engine. This part might take several minutes. It's a great time to grab coffee, pet the dog, or tell yourself you're going to reorganize your office later (you won't, but it's nice to dream).
When it's finished, you should see green check marks and "Install successful." If not, don't panic. Post in the forums and we'll troubleshoot it, but in most cases the install is smooth.
At this point, the SQL Server engine is installed and running. Now we just need SSMS so we can manage it.
Go download SQL Server Management Studio (SSMS) from Microsoft. Note that Microsoft now ships SSMS separately. Years ago it was bundled, but not anymore. This is actually a good thing because it means you can install SSMS on your workstation and manage SQL Server on a different machine, which is common in real-world setups.
Run the SSMS installer. For our purposes, the defaults are fine. Install it and let it finish.
You may be prompted to restart Windows afterward, especially on a fresh SQL Server setup. If you're prompted, restart. Don't skip it. SQL Server installs a bunch of services and components, and you'll save yourself a lot of weirdness by doing a clean reboot now.
Once SSMS is installed, launch it. I recommend pinning it to your taskbar because you'll be using it constantly throughout this course.
SSMS may ask you to sign into a Microsoft or GitHub account. You can skip that. It's not required to use SSMS or connect to SQL Server. That's mainly for syncing settings and cloud-related features. We're staying local and simple.
Now you'll see the connection screen. This is where everything clicks together.
The Server name format is:
ComputerName\InstanceName
So if your computer is named KIRK (because you're a Star Trek nerd like me), and you installed the default instance SQLEXPRESS, your server name would be:
KIRK\SQLEXPRESS
Choose Windows Authentication and click Connect.
You may see an error that looks scary, something like a connection warning involving encryption and certificates. On a new local install, this is often the famous "self-signed certificate" message. Translation: SQL Server is trying to encrypt the connection, but Windows doesn't automatically trust the certificate because SQL Server created it itself. On a local training system or in-house setup, this is normal.
The fix is simple: check the box that says Trust server certificate and connect again.
In a big corporate or internet-facing environment, you'd install a proper certificate from a trusted authority. But for local and in-house use, trusting the server certificate is perfectly normal and very common.
Once connected, you'll see the Object Explorer on the left and you're officially in business. SQL Server is installed, SSMS is working, and you're ready for the fun part: actually building databases and connecting Access to them.
And yes, in the next lessons we'll start creating tables, learning the SQL Server equivalents of Access concepts, and eventually linking your Access front-end to SQL Server tables like it was born to do it.
If you want the full screen-by-screen walkthrough, the embedded video above will walk you through the entire process exactly as shown. But if you followed this article, you should now understand what you're installing, why you're choosing those options, and what to do when SQL Server throws one of its dramatic little warnings at you.
See you in the next lesson!
Live long and prosper,
RR
